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The scent of jasmine and the faint hum of my favorite evening playlist filled my apartment. I swirled a last-minute dash of turmeric into my golden milk latte, watching the steam curl. Tonight was the night: my first date with Mark, a man whose online profile had promised witty banter, a shared love for obscure indie films, and, crucially, an openness to new experiences. He’d even ‘liked’ my comment about ethical veganism on a mutual friend’s post. Hope, that fragile, eager thing, fluttered in my chest.
I slipped on my silk blend dress, a soft emerald green that always made me feel confident. My friend, Chloe, had texted earlier, “Don’t forget your ‘red flag radar,’ Elara! And please, for the love of all that is holy, don’t let him mansplain your own dietary choices.” I smiled, her words a playful warning. I was, after all, a seasoned veteran of the modern dating battlefield. I knew what I was looking for: respect, genuine curiosity, and someone who didn’t flinch at the sight of tofu.
Mark had suggested a new fusion restaurant downtown. “It’s supposed to be incredible,” he’d texted, “and I hear they have options for everyone.” The emphasis on ‘options’ had given me a slight pause, but I dismissed it as overthinking. After all, he’d chosen a place that at least advertised inclusivity.
He arrived fifteen minutes late, sending a breezy text “Stuck in traffic, be there soon!” as I sat at the table, a slight tremor of annoyance running through me. He breezed in, a whirlwind of apologies that felt more performative than genuine, running a hand through his perpetually styled hair. He was taller than I expected, with an easy smile that bordered on smarmy. “Elara, right? Wow, you look even better in person.” His eyes lingered a beat too long, and I felt a prickle of unease. First tick on the ‘red flag radar.’
The restaurant was chic, all exposed brick and dim lighting. The menu, however, was another story. “Ah, yes, ‘The Carnivore’s Dream’,” I murmured, scanning the heavily meat-centric offerings. There were precisely two vegan options: a side salad (no dressing specified) and a mushroom risotto that was explicitly listed as containing parmesan. My heart sank. “I thought you said they had options for everyone,” I joked, trying to keep my tone light, gesturing to the menu.
Mark peered over. “Oh, you know, they usually do. I’m sure the chef can whip something up for you. Vegans are, like, super flexible, right?” He chuckled, a sound that grated slightly. “Just ask for, I don’t know, a plate of steamed vegetables? Or maybe some un-cheesed pasta?”
I felt a flash of irritation. “Actually, ‘super flexible’ often translates to ‘inconveniently accommodating’,” I corrected, a little more sharply than I intended. “And plain pasta isn’t exactly a culinary experience. But I’m sure I can find something.” I called the waiter over, determined to be polite but firm. He, bless his heart, managed to rustle up a custom order of roasted seasonal vegetables with quinoa, assuring me it would be ‘delicious and satisfying.’ It sounded lovely, if a bit pricier than the standard menu items.
Mark, meanwhile, ordered a colossal steak, medium-rare, with a side of loaded mashed potatoes. “Go big or go home, right?” he winked, then turned his attention back to his phone for a moment to answer a text. Another red flag: disengagement.
The conversation that followed was, to put it mildly, a one-sided affair. Mark spent the first twenty minutes regaling me with tales of his recent promotion, his ambitious plans for his ‘side hustle,’ and his intense workout regimen. When he finally paused for breath, I attempted to steer the conversation towards my work as a graphic designer, my passion for ethical fashion, or even the indie films he’d claimed to love.
“Oh, right, graphic design,” he said, cutting me off smoothly. “You know, my cousin does that. She makes those little logos, right? Pretty easy gig, I imagine. Not like what I do – I’m in tech sales, you know, really hustling, closing deals, big money.” He took a long sip of his craft beer. “So, about those indie films… I’m more of a blockbuster guy, actually. Action, explosions. You know, real cinema.”
I felt a slow burn start in my chest. He hadn’t just dismissed my career; he’d downplayed it and then contradicted his own profile. “Right,” I said, a forced smile on my face. “I suppose ‘obscure indie films’ sounded more cultured for a dating profile.”
He laughed, oblivious. “Exactly! You get it. Gotta put your best foot forward, you know?”
Our food arrived. My roasted vegetables and quinoa looked vibrant and smelled wonderful. Mark’s steak was a monstrous slab of meat. He immediately launched into a detailed description of the marbling, the searing, the sheer carnivorous glory of it all.
“So,” he said, spearing a piece of steak, “this vegan thing. Is it like, a protest? Or a health kick? I just don’t get it. Don’t you miss bacon? Like, real food?”
I took a deep breath. “It’s neither a protest nor a ‘kick’, Mark. It’s an ethical choice, rooted in compassion for animals and environmental sustainability. And no, I don’t miss bacon. There are incredible plant-based alternatives now, and frankly, I prefer knowing my choices aren’t contributing to suffering.”
He chewed slowly, then wiped his mouth with his napkin. “Hmm. A bit extreme, isn’t it? My ex tried that for like, a week. Gave it up when she realized how much work it was. Plus, everything’s so expensive if you want to eat ‘special’ like that.” He gestured vaguely at my plate. “Like, these vegetables. I bet they’re more than my steak, right? All organic, artisanal, bespoke… just for you.”
The comment hung in the air, a thick, palpable tension. My custom vegan meal was more expensive, a fact I’d noticed when the waiter mentioned the price. But it was also the only proper meal I could get in this restaurant he had chosen. The implication that my ethical choice was a frivolous luxury I shouldn’t expect him to indulge was a red flag the size of Texas.
The rest of the meal was a blur of Mark talking, me offering polite but increasingly terse responses, and an overwhelming desire to be anywhere else. He started complaining about the restaurant’s music choice, then about his former boss, then about the ‘wokeness’ of society. Each comment chipped away at my initial optimism, revealing a man who was self-centered, dismissive, and utterly lacking in empathy.
Finally, the waiter arrived with the bill. Mark picked it up, glanced at it, and then set it down with a theatrical sigh. “Alright,” he said, sliding it towards me. “So, your… special order… was a bit more than my steak, huh? What with the custom plating and the organic everything.” He gave a tight, almost amused smile. “Look, Elara, I’m a modern guy. I believe in splitting the bill. But I also believe in personal choices. And your choice to eat, you know, ‘differently’… that’s on you, right?”
My jaw tightened. “Are you implying you won’t pay for your half of my meal, because it’s vegan?” I asked, my voice dangerously calm.
He shrugged. “Not my half, your half. Look, I ordered the steak. You ordered the, uh, greens. It’s not my fault if your ‘greens’ cost more because they’re, well, ‘special.’ I’m happy to split my steak and potatoes with you, but your custom order? That’s your premium, not mine.” He pushed the bill closer, a clear line drawn down the middle with his finger, indicating his column and mine.
It wasn’t just the money. It was the principle. The blatant disrespect. The implicit judgment. The sheer audacity. This wasn’t about him being a ‘modern guy’ who believed in splitting the bill; it was about him shirking responsibility for a choice he had made (the restaurant) while simultaneously shaming my choice.
“Mark,” I said, picking up the bill myself. My hand didn’t even tremble. “Let me make this clear. When you invite someone on a date, you factor in their basic needs and preferences. You chose this restaurant. You knew I was vegan. To then penalize me for ordering the only appropriate meal available, and to frame it as my ‘premium choice’ rather than a basic accommodation, is incredibly disrespectful.”
He looked surprised, his smirk faltering slightly. “Whoa, whoa, ‘penalize’? It’s just fair, Elara. Why should I pay extra for your… lifestyle?”
“Because it’s called common courtesy,” I retorted, pulling out my card. “But you know what? Don’t worry about it. I’ll pay for my ‘lifestyle’ and your ‘lifestyle’ too.” I slid my card to the waiter, who had been hovering discreetly, looking increasingly uncomfortable. “Split it, please,” I said to him, then turned back to Mark. “Actually, no. Just charge my card for the whole thing.”
Mark’s eyes widened. “What? No, Elara, that’s not what I meant. I’m happy to pay for my part—”
“No, Mark,” I cut him off, my voice steady, my gaze unwavering. “You made it clear what you think of my choices. You’ve also made it clear that you lack basic consideration, empathy, and respect for anyone whose life doesn’t perfectly align with yours. That’s not the kind of person I’m interested in spending another minute with, let alone another meal.”
The waiter returned with my card and the receipt. I signed it, adding a generous tip for his excellent service under difficult circumstances. I stood up, adjusting my dress.
“I think we’re done here,” I said, looking down at Mark, who was still slumped in his chair, a mixture of shock and indignation on his face. “Enjoy the rest of your ‘real food,’ Mark.”
I walked out of the restaurant, head held high, the emerald green of my dress a defiant splash of color against the dim streetlights. The cool night air felt like a balm on my flushed cheeks. I pulled out my phone, typed a quick text to Chloe: “Red flag radar off the charts. Date officially ended. I paid for his steak.”
Her immediate reply flashed on the screen: “OH. MY. GOD. Details, STAT! But well done, warrior.”
I smiled, a genuine smile this time. Walking home, the initial sting of disappointment faded, replaced by a surge of empowerment. It wasn’t just about the vegan meal or the bill. It was about seeing all the other red flags – the dismissiveness, the self-absorption, the lack of empathy – coalesce into a clear, undeniable picture.
The rejection stung for a moment, but then it felt like liberation. I wasn’t looking for someone to tolerate my choices; I was looking for someone to respect them, understand them, and maybe even be curious about them. Mark was not that someone. And paying for his steak was a small price to pay for the clarity, and the knowledge that I had stood up for myself, firmly and unequivocally. The next date, I promised myself, would be with someone who understood that ‘options for everyone’ meant genuine consideration, not just an afterthought, and that a shared meal was about connection, not just a transaction. The jasmine scent of home awaited, and for the first time all evening, I felt truly satisfied.
This work is inspired by real events and people, but it has been fictionalized for creative purposes. Names, characters, and details have been changed to protect privacy and enhance the narrative. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events is purely coincidental and not intended by the author.
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