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The air in the small, two-bedroom apartment was perpetually thick with the scent of jasmine rice and whatever Sophea, Srey Mao’s daughter-in-law, had decided to cook – or rather, instructed Srey Mao to cook. Every morning, before the sun had fully chased away the Phnom Penh humidity, Srey Mao was already awake. Not by choice, but by a precise, unspoken schedule that had become her life’s rhythm since moving in with her son, Vanna, and his family five years ago.
Her day began not with a quiet cup of tea, but with the clatter of pots and pans. Sophea, a sleek, modern woman with a penchant for high-heeled sandals and a perpetually crisp blouse, would emerge from her bedroom, smartphone already in hand, and issue the day’s directives. “Ma, the children need their breakfast by seven. Don’t forget their vitamins. And please, the laundry basket is overflowing. The darks separately this time, okay? And oh, their school uniforms, they need pressing.”
Srey Mao would nod, her slender frame already stooping a little more each year, a lifetime of manual labor etched into her hands. She loved her grandchildren – little Kiri, six, with eyes like liquid chocolate, and baby Socheat, barely two, whose gummy smile was the only thing that truly brightened her days. It was for them, she told herself, that she endured. For them, that she bit back the retort when Sophea would add, almost as an afterthought, “You know, Ma, that’s what grandmas are for. To help the family, to lighten the load.”
“Lighten the load” was a phrase that had begun to grate on Srey Mao’s soul. Her load felt heavier than ever. She cooked three meals a day, cleaned the apartment top to bottom, did all the laundry, bathed the children, helped Kiri with homework, and even massaged Sophea’s feet after a long day of “work” – which often seemed to involve coffee shop meetings and social media scrolling. Vanna, her son, saw nothing amiss. He was a good man, a hardworking man, but utterly blind to the invisible chains binding his mother. When Srey Mao once, gently, hinted at her exhaustion, Vanna had shrugged, “But Ma, Sophea works so hard too. And you’re retired, what else would you do?”
Srey Mao had no answer. She had worked her whole life, first in the rice fields of her village, then selling vegetables at the market after her husband passed. Retirement, she’d imagined, would involve tending her small garden back in the village, chatting with old friends, perhaps visiting a pagoda more often. Instead, it was an unpaid, round-the-clock servitude in the city.
One sweltering afternoon, a new low presented itself. Sophea had gone out with friends, leaving Srey Mao with both children. Socheat had an upset stomach and cried incessantly. Kiri, caught up in a cartoon, refused to eat her lunch. Srey Mao was trying to spoon-feed the baby while simultaneously cajoling Kiri when her phone chimed. It was Sophea. “Ma, could you please pick up my dry cleaning? It’s on the way back from Kiri’s school, so it won’t be out of your way. And get some organic kale, please, for my smoothie tomorrow. I left money under my pillow.”
Srey Mao looked at the two distraught children. Kiri’s school was a forty-minute walk in the scorching heat, and the dry cleaner was another twenty minutes beyond that. With a whimpering baby in a carrier and a petulant six-year-old, it was an impossible task. She swallowed, her throat tight. “Sophea,” she began, her voice unusually firm, “I… I cannot today. Socheat is unwell, and Kiri is not eating.”
There was a beat of silence on the line, then a sigh that vibrated with barely concealed irritation. “Ma, is it really that difficult? It’s just a little walk. It’s important for my presentation tomorrow. And it’s for the children, really, to have a healthy mother, no?” Sophea’s voice took on a wheedling tone. “You know, Ma, that’s what grandmas are for. To support the family, to help us succeed.”
The phrase, usually a dull throb, this time felt like a sharp jab. Srey Mao felt something snap inside her. For the first time, she didn’t just feel tired; she felt… used. And angry. But the anger was quickly replaced by a familiar guilt. She couldn’t disappoint Sophea, couldn’t upset the family peace. So, she packed Socheat into the stroller, grabbed Kiri’s hand, and set off under the unforgiving sun, the unpaid maid, the dutiful grandma.
That evening, as Sophea recounted her day of “stressful” coffee meetings, Srey Mao watched Vanna nod sympathetically, his arm around his wife. She felt a profound loneliness. Later, as she lay in her narrow bed, staring at the ceiling, an old memory surfaced. Her mother, stern but kind, teaching her to weave intricate patterns on a loom, telling her, “Srey Mao, your hands are your dignity. Never let them be idle, but never let them be exploited.”
The next morning, Srey Mao made breakfast as usual, but there was a subtle shift in her demeanor. She moved with a purpose that wasn’t just about completing tasks. She made a decision. She called her old friend, Dara, who lived in a small apartment across town. Dara, a widow like herself, had always been a beacon of independent spirit. “Dara,” Srey Mao said, her voice wavering slightly, “I need to talk.”
They met at a quiet noodle stall, the clatter of traffic a distant hum. Srey Mao poured out her heart, the years of suppressed resentment finally spilling over. Dara listened patiently, her wise eyes filled with understanding. “Srey Mao,” she said gently, when Srey Mao finished, “they have forgotten that you are not just a grandmother. You are a person. You are Srey Mao.”
Dara shared stories of her own, of how she had learned to say “no” to her own children’s demands, how she had carved out her own space. “They will be angry, at first,” Dara warned. “They will say you are selfish. But if you do not value yourself, no one else will.”
Emboldened by Dara’s words, Srey Mao started small. When Sophea asked her to mend a torn blouse, Srey Mao said, “I have to finish helping Kiri with her math first. Perhaps you could try the sewing kit I showed you?” Sophea’s eyebrows shot up. “Ma, it’s just a small tear! It will take you two minutes.”
“It takes time to do it properly,” Srey Mao replied, her voice calm but firm. Sophea huffed and stomped away, the blouse left on the table. Later, Srey Mao found it in the bin.
The next week, Sophea asked Srey Mao to clean the entire apartment, including scrubbing the bathrooms. Srey Mao paused, then said, “I will clean the kitchen and the living room, as I always do. But the bathrooms, I think, are a task for the person who uses them.”
Sophea stared at her, as if Srey Mao had grown a second head. “What? Ma, what are you talking about? I’m busy!”
“We are all busy, Sophea,” Srey Mao responded, a faint smile playing on her lips. “But we are also capable.”
A cold front descended upon the apartment. Sophea barely spoke to Srey Mao, communicating only through Vanna. Vanna, caught in the crossfire, became visibly stressed. He tried to mediate, “Ma, why are you making things difficult? Sophea is upset. We are a family.”
“Yes, Vanna, we are a family,” Srey Mao said, looking him directly in the eye, “and in a family, everyone contributes. And everyone respects each other’s worth.”
Vanna squirmed. He saw his mother for the first time, not as a silent, ever-present fixture, but as a person with feelings and boundaries. He also saw his wife, accustomed to having her needs met without question, now floundering. The apartment grew noticeably messier. Laundry piled up. Meals became simpler, often takeout, as Sophea found herself navigating a kitchen she rarely entered. The kids noticed too. Kiri, particularly observant, started asking, “Grandma, why isn’t Mama cooking anymore?”
Srey Mao, feeling a strange mix of guilt and liberation, found solace in the small moments of freedom she now had. She started going for walks in the park, enjoying the breeze, watching the other grandmothers gossip and laugh. She even enrolled in a beginner’s English class at the local community center, something she had always dreamed of doing. Her mind, long dulled by routine, felt sharper, more alive.
The tension in the apartment reached a crescendo one Saturday morning. Vanna, bleary-eyed, was trying to wrangle Kiri and Socheat, who were both demanding breakfast. Sophea was still asleep. Vanna burned the toast, spilled milk, and yelled at Kiri, who burst into tears.
Srey Mao, who had just returned from her English class, watched the chaos unfold. She felt a pang of sympathy, but also a fierce sense of resolve. This was not her burden to fix, not anymore.
Vanna looked up, his face a mess of frustration and spilled coffee. “Ma, please! Can you just… help?”
Srey Mao walked into the kitchen, but instead of taking over, she took a clean cloth and handed it to Vanna. “Here, son. First, wipe the counter. Then, perhaps, simpler food for the children. Bread and fruit, for now. And maybe you could talk to Sophea about sharing the tasks.”
Vanna stared at her, then at the cloth. For a moment, she thought he might explode. But then, something shifted in his eyes. He looked tired, defeated, but also… understanding. He took the cloth.
That evening, after the children were asleep, Vanna sat down with Srey Mao. Sophea was still in a huff, watching TV in their bedroom. “Ma,” Vanna began, his voice low, “I… I’m sorry. I never realized how much you did. How much we… took advantage.”
Srey Mao nodded, a single tear tracing a path down her weathered cheek. “I love you, son. I love my grandchildren more than anything. But I am not a servant. I am your mother.”
Vanna buried his face in his hands. “I know, Ma. I’m going to talk to Sophea. We need to figure this out.”
The “figuring out” wasn’t easy. Sophea was initially furious, feeling attacked and unsupported. She accused Srey Mao of being selfish, of abandoning her duties, of not loving her grandchildren enough. The apartment became a battleground of silences and sharp words. But Vanna, finally awakened, stood by his mother. He began to cook, albeit poorly, and to help with the children. He insisted Sophea take on more responsibilities, even if it meant she had less “free time.”
Slowly, painstakingly, a new equilibrium began to form. Srey Mao no longer cooked every meal. She taught Kiri to help wash dishes. She spent quality time with her grandchildren, reading them stories, teaching them traditional songs, without the pressure of a looming chore list. Sophea, grumbling at first, started preparing simple meals, and even, to Srey Mao’s surprise, occasionally did a load of laundry. She still wasn’t warm or overtly apologetic, but the demands ceased. The phrase, “That’s what grandmas are for,” was never uttered again.
Srey Mao found a small apartment near Dara, a place she could call her own. It was a difficult decision, leaving her grandchildren, but she knew it was necessary for her peace, and for their growth. She still visited regularly, showering Kiri and Socheat with love and stories, but her visits were now joyful, chosen, not imposed.
One afternoon, a few months after she moved out, Srey Mao was sitting on her own small balcony, tending to her potted jasmine, when Sophea called. “Ma,” Sophea said, her voice hesitant, “Kiri has a fever. And Socheat won’t stop crying. I… I don’t know what to do.”
Srey Mao smiled, a genuine, unburdened smile. “Bring them over, Sophea,” she said. “I’ll make some ginger tea. And you can rest a little.”
She was still a grandmother. But now, she was a grandmother by choice, her dignity intact, her hands no longer just instruments of labor, but symbols of her reclaimed self. And in the quiet hum of her own small home, the scent of jasmine felt like freedom.
This work is inspired by real events and people, but it has been fictionalized for creative purposes. Names, characters, and details have been changed to protect privacy and enhance the narrative. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events is purely coincidental and not intended by the author.
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