AITAH for refusing to split the bill evenly at a group dinner in Austin when I only had water and one taco while everyone else ordered three rounds of margaritas?

My name is Daniel, I’m 29, and I live in Austin, Texas. Last weekend a group of friends decided to meet up for dinner at a popular taco place downtown.

There were six of us in total. It was supposed to be a casual hangout — tacos, drinks, catching up, nothing fancy.

When we sat down, most of the group immediately started ordering margaritas.

Not just one round either.

The table ordered three rounds over the course of the evening.

Now, I should mention something important: I don’t drink alcohol. It’s not a big deal to me, I just prefer not to. So while everyone else was ordering margaritas, I stuck with water.

As for food, I wasn’t very hungry that night and ended up ordering one taco.

That was it.

Meanwhile the rest of the table had multiple tacos, appetizers, and drinks.

The night was fun and nobody mentioned anything about money until the bill arrived.

When the server dropped it on the table, one of my friends picked it up, looked at the total, and said the phrase that always makes me nervous at group dinners:

“Let’s just split it evenly.”

The total bill was around $350.

Split six ways, that meant each person would pay about $58.

Now normally I try not to make things awkward in group settings, but in this case I couldn’t ignore the math.

My taco was $4.

Even if you added tax and tip, my portion was nowhere close to $58.

So I politely said something like, “Hey, I think I’m just going to pay for what I ordered.”

The table went quiet.

One friend looked confused and said, “It’s just easier if we split it.”

Another person joked, “Come on, it’s only a few extra dollars.”

But it wasn’t a few dollars.

It was basically asking me to subsidize everyone else’s margaritas.

I explained that I only had water and one taco, so paying $58 didn’t really make sense.

That’s when the mood shifted a little.

Someone said splitting evenly is “just what people do in group dinners.”

Another friend mentioned that arguing over the bill makes things awkward.

Eventually the server came back and we ended up itemizing everything separately anyway.

But the energy at the table definitely felt different afterward.

Later that night one of the friends texted me saying I probably should have just gone along with the split to avoid making things uncomfortable.

Now I’m second-guessing the whole situation.

On one hand, I feel like paying for what you actually ordered is reasonable.

On the other hand, I know group dinners sometimes follow the “just split it” rule.

So now I’m wondering if I handled it poorly.

AITAH for refusing to split the bill evenly when my order was dramatically smaller than everyone else’s?